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Question on Feeling Guilty when Saying No

This question is from an Email Reading where the client has chosen to make their information available for others to learn from. We all can learn from the experiences of another and I hope the answer below assists you in some way. While you are here, why not look through the entire Ask Aurora section to find more wonderful questions and their responses. Please consider purchasing an email reading to help you on a personal level with anything you may be going through. Thank you!

06/07/10: Dear Aurora, my question is about work. I am always saying yes to hard working jobs both mental and physical. Then when I say no, I feel really guilty, like I have let everyone down. Is this past life thing or just me? And, what can I do to overcome this?

Yes, this is from a past life. You have a strong drive to please others in this way. This is why you feel guilty about saying no even when you are too tired or run down. This is from a past life where you were a talented martial artist in Japan. You worked hard every day so that you would always be the best and that way no one could kill you or injure you. You had such great skill at what you did, but you ignored all other parts of your life. You would often be hired by royalty or generals to fight in their battles, and you never said no.

This was because that life you were so bound by a strict code of honor, that you felt a morel obligation to do everything to the highest possible level. Well, eventually because you ignored the other areas of your life, you got quite sick and died. To get past this energy, try working with an affirmation "My worth is not based on what I tasks I complete or not. I have no obligation to perform work that drains my body or mind. I now draw into my life peace in my work life and a job that fulfills me in my heart."

Love, Aurora

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